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Peace and Love For All #PrayForFrance


I was very saddened to hear  about the 84 innocent lives lost in Nice, France on Bastille Day due to yet another terrorist attack. My heart goes out to their untimely deaths, the injured, and the grief that their loved ones have to bear. It is also troubling to see what the rest of the world is coming to, such as the political issues of how the nations are getting divided, threatening to get rid of immigrants to make their nation great and “pure” again, how some people are fighting one another due to racial discrimination, the increasing level of hatred and violence, the denial of climate change because we keep destroying our very own planet which in turn causes more natural disasters, deaths of animals and humans.




If only we learn how to understand, accept and love one another regardless of our religion and race, the color of our skin, where we came from, our gender identity, level of education, how much money we have etc, the world would be a better, peaceful place. We as human beings tend to think we are the only supreme beings on Earth. We lose sight of compassion due to our egos to prove we are better than everyone else, claim our religion is better, seek “happiness” by pursuing power, money, gratification and fame. I don’t want to judge anyone as we are here just trying to survive and deserve to find our own happiness and love.





Religion was created by man, different people from other parts of the world worship their own God but who are we to judge and condemn others just because they have a different faith from us? That said if we look at the Ancient Scriptures and try to read between the lines of all of the religious books, from the Holy Bible to the Quran, they all say the same thing – We are all supposed to respect, love and accept one another, not to kill, destroy or prove we are better than anyone else. They also warn us that the “earthly desires” we seek in this physical world – be it power, money, possessions, control, lust, “romantic love” for example will blind us from finding true peace and happiness.




We as humans, all have the gift of life and a conscience to choose between what is right and wrong, and the full capacity to love one another. We don’t have the right to take another life, or our own lives for that matter especially to ruin other people’s lives. We are all going to die eventually anyway, it could be today, could be tomorrow, or until we grow into a ripe old age.  When we die, all of what we have in this world and who we are with will not come with us! To seek “salvation” just because we read the book according to our religion we choose to follow but don’t try to understand what it really means,  think that we can judge/condemn everyone else (or kill other people with different faiths), believe that we will be “saved” and just sit around without trying to help or understand everyone else, is selfish! This is why there are still wars being fought and terrorism is sprouting its evil roots onto people’s minds who are unstable, isolated, angry, depressed and feel the need to “glorify” themselves by causing destruction. And no, I do not condemn Islam. I grew up with Muslims as I lived in a multi racial country that respects and teaches us to understand all forms of religion such as Christianity, Buddhism, Hinduism and Judaism, just to name a few.   Their  values are the same as everyone else who wants peace and to respect one another.

The hidden meaning behind seeking a relationship with Our Maker, is to serve him by helping and loving one another, to keep an open mind and respect the Earth that He gave to us, not to destroy it due to greed and conquests. We need to maintain a healthy balance of living and being spiritual. To find peace and happiness we have to repent and seek for forgiveness, even towards the people who have hurt or discriminated against us in the past. Praying and meditation helps a lot, to let go of the pain and anger and to be “present.”




At times when I look at animals and their behaviour, I feel that they are better than us humans. The predators only kill to survive. They only attack to protect themselves, their territories, mates and off-springs. They try to stay together and protect one another. Animals, including some of the wild species are capable of forming loving bonds with humans. Nature can really teach us how to just “be” if we take a breather from our own heads and observe what she has to offer! Our lives our so short, lets make the most out of it.




I am writing this as I was really moved by the issues that are plaguing our lives, and our planet, and the path towards our own destruction. I hope some of us can really look at reality and reflect on what we can do for each other every day. May we all eventually learn how to love and accept one another.




Beauty, Event Photography, Fashion Shows & Events, Global Awareness, Lifestyle, Make Up, Skin Care

Beauty, Baubles, Bevvies and Boxes Event






I love that the fashion and beauty industry is becoming more earth conscious. The  Beauty, Baubles, Bevvies, and Boxes event was a great showcase of brands that featured products that were Eco-friendly  and  helped give back to the community.


Deepa Gurnani is an artisan jewelry brand that sells handcrafted accessories made in India. The designers behind the brand are husband and wife Deepa and Jay Lakhani. Deepa has beaded couture pieces for Alexander McQueen, Fendi and Emanuel Ungaro  while Jay Lakhani trained under head designers for Tiffany and Bvlgari. It’s no wonder why their jewelry and hair accessories are so exquisite and fashionable.




The pieces that were being displayed at the event were embellished with crystals, beads, feathers and semi precious stones. Some of the headbands, bracelets and necklaces have intricate designs embroidered onto leather pieces with beads. The collection has an earthy, bohemian vibe with an air of luxury. I loved the carnelian necklace and the black feather headband.  Another thing that I admire about Deepa Gurnani is that they are involved with charitable causes and employ the unskilled workforce to teach them skills to support their families.








Hynt Beauty is a organic and cruelty free beauty brand that did makeup touch ups at the event. What makes them different is that their products are not only vegan, they are also made from natural ingredients and botanical extracts. They do not have any nano particles and artificial colorants and preservatives. And of course, they are also Eco-friendly and do not test on animals. The makeup line  looks luxurious and elegant at the same time. I had a mini makeover with the products and I absolutely was impressed with the make up base, powder foundation  and concealer. A little goes a long way and using just a small amount made my imperfections and eye bags disappear, giving it a natural glow.







The drinks were from Invo Coconut Water that uses fresh coconuts from Thailand. The juice is
cold crafted, meaning it is not pasteurised with heat! By doing so, the essential nutrients are retained, making the juice fresher and healthier. Invo also had different flavours with Sencha green tea and Tropical that’s blended with mango and pineapple juices. I’ve tried the coconut water and sure enough it was refreshing and not too sweet, just like sticking a straw and drinking from a freshly cracked coconut! Invo Coconut Water also uses sustainable farming methods.




Boombox Gifts showcased their products and services that makes gifting personal and fun. How it works is that you pick a box from a selection of designs and then Boombox helps you fill it with notes and pictures from your group of friends. It’s perfect for all occasions such birthdays, anniversaries and bridal showers!



As someone who loves the earth and giving back, I loved being introduced to and learning more about these inspirational brands at this event.
I hope you check out some of their products out!

Hynt Beauty:

Deepa Gurnani:

Invo Coconut Water:

Boombox :
What are your favourite products that are natural and earth friendly?
Tell me more in the comments below about your recommendations.

Beauty, Beauty Within, Event Photography, Lifestyle, Skin Care, Trends

SK-II #ChangeDestiny Pop-Up Studio Event


SK-II is a popular beauty brand from Japan that is now world renowned for its anti-aging, moisturizing and skin evening benefits.




I’ve been fortunate enough to get invited to SK-II’s #changedestiny Pop-Up Studio launch in SoHo, New York to learn more about the story behind the brand.




The development of SK-II began when scientists noticed that the elderly workers at a sake brewery still had youthful hands in contrast to their wrinkled faces. They then realized that the secret of their soft hands must lie within the yeast that was used in the fermentation process. After experimenting on at least 350 yeast strains, they have developed Pitera, a clear essence rich in amaino acids, minerals and organic acids that also mimics the skin’s Natural Moisturizing Factors, hence enhancing its skin renewal, translucency and smoothness.




It’s best selling product is the facial treatment essence a moisturizing toner and serum containing more than 90% Pitera essence which  slows down the aging process and promises a youthful, crystal clear complexion within 28 days. The line also includes a range of products from facial creams, serums, eye creams and masks that addresses skin concerns such as firmness, elasticity, whitening and luminosity.






The new line SK-II Luxury Pitera which contains the Skin Regenerating Activ which optimizes skin cell renewal, Pitera 8X, the highest concentration of their anti-aging ingredient and Rose Absolut. This strengthens the skin’s vitality and moisture barrier to protect it from the test of time.




Some of SK-II’s loyal users and ambassadors are; critically acclaimed actress Cate Blanchett, popular Chinese actress Tang Wei and Japanese actress and singer Ayase Haruka. Apart from their success and talents, they all have the same flawless, youthful and crystal clear skin! In fact I have used SK-II’s facial treatment essence before and I still have compliments for having a clear complexion and been mistaken for a 16 year old on several occasions at the age of 25!




Sk-II has also launched a new social media campaign and movement called #ChangeDestiny, where vloggers and women around the world share their stories of overcoming their challenges in life to pursue their passion. Destiny isn’t a matter of chance but it’s a matter of choice and becoming who you want to be despite the odds.




In fact, I have shared one of my personal stories on an online fashion magazine about surviving rape from the age of 7 and turning my attention to art, acting and writing as a form of therapy. Despite everyone’s objections, I moved alone to New York to pursue my dreams on a higher level and I have  progressed into the fashion industry as a host, model, writer and photographer. It is enlightening that having  the courage of revealing my story has inspired women and artists that I have met. We have the power to change our destiny no matter what other people do or say! The answer is within all of us!

For more information on the #changedestiny campaign you can view it here on

And my article for the online magazine is on


*Credits to photographer Jeffrey Boyle who created my Beauty shot at the top of this post.

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